02.16.06
Posted in Goddess Wisdom at 3:32 pm by Administrator
Some days I just want to quit. That’s right, just quit. Hide under the blankets and not be responsible for anything ever again. No baby, no bills, no husband, no cats, no friends, no relationships, no job, no nothing…*boom* just sit on my butt, arms folded across my chest and defy anyone to ask me to do anything! And for a moment it seems like a GREAT idea, not a good idea, but a GREAT idea…until I start to think about the little twinkle in my baby’s eyes when she catches sight of me or my wonderful husband leaving me a thermos of coffee in the morning before he heads off to work or the satisfaction of seeing one of my dance students go from being wrapped in a cocoon to breaking free into a full blown colorful butterfly in a matter of weeks. These are the little moments that keep me going during the times of overwhelm, depression or feelings of inadequacy. The times when I want my single, childless life back or when I want to be a child again with no cares in the world but what toy I’m going to play with today. And then, life seems better and the frustration starts to subside and I see that there really is a lot in my life to keep going forward for. It’s a good reminder that life doesn’t always have to be sunny. Sometimes we have to journey through the dark and that’s okay. As long as we keep going, eventually we’ll find what we need to illuminate the way. It’s all about balance.
So go ahead and sit on your butt and quit. Let it all go, relax and allow yourself to breath in the freedom of having nothing. Yippee, free at last!!! And when you’re finished, stand back up, brush yourself off and embrace the little things that keep you going each day. Mmmmm…not so bad after all.
Have a Grooving Goddess Great Day,
Goddess Guru Mychele
www.mychele.net
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02.08.06
Posted in Goddess Wisdom at 12:57 am by Administrator
Last night I had the incredible honor of attending a workshop with the incomparable Amel Tafsout. Going into this I had no idea what a life changing experience it would be. For the first time in my life I experienced trance dancing first hand. I wasn’t expecting this. I thought this was going to be a nice, sweet representation of healing dances like you would see in a dance performance or some such. No way, this was the real deal. Amel Tafsout expertly guided us from beginning to end, establishing a sacred, comfortable space that allowed us to let go, dance, and allow all of the emotions of the human experiences to flow through us. I’ve known for years that dancing healed my soul and I saw it in my students. Now I got to really experience it in an intense moment, not the little, subtle life changes that occur taking weekly classes, but in the kick you in the butt change right now way. And I liked it…a lot. I feel cleansed, regenerated, and very alive…if not a bit tired…today. I want to do it again…and again…and again…Thank you to all of the beautiful goddesses who were there to make this experience so special to me and to Amel Tafsout for sharing gifts of healing and Sherry for organizing this. Now, I’m off to bed to allow more healing of my body, mind, and spirit.
Have a Grooving Goddess Great Day,
Goddess Guru Mychele
www.mychele.net
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02.06.06
Posted in Goddess Wisdom at 1:29 am by Administrator
I’m currently taking a class with Suzanne Falter-Barns called Get Known Now. This class is all about, well, you guessed it, getting known for what you do. So here’s my dilemma…what do I do? I teach belly dancing, I teach and do henna, I do tarot readings for corporate events and privately for friends and family, I create classes to help women connect with their powerful goddess self. So what’s my name, my BRAND, as Suzanne calls it? I’ve called myself the Creative Goddess for years, but that’s been more my “title”, not my business name. I thought of Goddess Guru, but again, more of a title than a business name. And then to really make things a little more difficult, I’ve decided to focus more on the dancing as a way to help empower women. (Actually, this may help to make things easier.) This is my quandary, what is my business name that gets people to want to know more about what I do…and to want to be a part of what I’m doing. Here are the name ideas I have so far…
- Dancing Goddess
- Soaring Spirit
So, in Shakespeare’s time, a rose by any other name would still smell as sweet, but in the modern day, technological age, you need the RIGHT name in order to smell sweet!
I’d love to hear your comments or ideas on my business name.
Have a Grooving Goddess Great Day,
Goddess Guru Mychele
www.mychele.net
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01.23.06
Posted in Goddess Wisdom at 12:48 am by Administrator
Seconds, minutes and hours tick quickly by each day as more and more is added to our never ending to do list. Stress increases, tension sets in, headaches begin and yet the merry go round of life never seems to slow down enough for us to enjoy the ride. There are days when it’s going for so long that dizziness just becomes a way of life. Before things get so out of control (or even if they already are) take a moment to BREATH. That’s right, I said to breath. Breathing is so natural that we forget to be conscious of it. And then we begin to hold our breath, to breath very quickly or too shallow, but very seldom do we take the time to actually bring our breathing into our awareness. And yet, with the tiniest of effort, we can make a HUGE change in our daily abilities to prosper in a calm manner. So today, even if it’s just for a moment, give yourself the gift of conscientious, calming breath…in through your nose and out through your mouth. Inhaling deeply and exhaling slowly. Quiet your mind and allow all the gunk to flow out with each breath while you inhale beautiful, loving breaths. Repeat this 10 times. Most likely you will have a sense of peace at the end of this. And what a wonderful foundation peace makes for going forward with your daily dreams. Remember, you can do anything. Why??? Because you are a…
GODDESS!
Have a Grooving Goddess Great Day,
Goddess Guru Mychele
www.mychele.net
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Posted in Goddess Wisdom at 12:26 am by Administrator
While out at Disney waiting to go on the new Soarin’ ride, I was reminded of a very important life lesson today- if you want something, just ask for it. Our group consisted of five adults all wanting to be in the FIRST row, the very best seats on the ride. After a 45 minute wait, our long anticipated turn was near, but would we be in the coveted first row? That’s when it dawned on me, why not just ask for what we want? What’s the worst they can do? Say no? And if they do say no, how will this affect us? We’ll still get our turn, right? Right. So, very covertly I asked the attendant if we could all be in row one…”step aside next to the wall please,” was his very pleasant response, along with a knowing smile. He was on board to make our wishes come true…all because I asked for what we wanted! People like to be involved in something big, like wish granting. If you ask for what you want, there’s a good chance that you will get what you’re asking for. Why not give it a try today…what’s the worse that could happen? Better than that question, what’s the BEST that could happen?! Start asking today!
Have a Grooving Goddess Great Day,
Goddess Guru Mychele
www.mychele.net
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01.22.06
Posted in Goddess Wisdom at 7:36 am by Administrator
I have decided that I am no longer going to be insecure or self conscious about anything. That’s right, I am learning to delegate. Since I tend to worry about what other people are thinking about me and what I’m doing anyway (yes, even I do this! Some habits are hard to break) why not assume that they may indeed be thinking about “it” (whatever it is at the moment) and delegate the worrying about “it” to them? What a load off of my mind. See, no more insecurities! No more worries! No more being self conscious! Someone else, who probably really isn’t thinking about me anyway, gets to burden of the gunk.
What a great idea! This is what the biggest, most successful business people do, they hire people to do the work they don’t want to so that they can concentrate on doing the important stuff that they’re good at. That’s what I’m doing here, letting someone who is better about worrying about what I’m doing, worry about it so that I can move forward on my soul purpose path in a more positive manner. And it doesn’t really matter if they are truly concerned with my actions or not, it’s all in my mind anyway…all of it. And now I’ve given it away….what gunk can you get rid of today?
Have a Grooving Goddess Great Day,
Goddess Guru Mychele
http://www.mychele.net/
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Posted in Goddess Wisdom at 5:14 am by Administrator
Why do we knock ourselves down before others do? I hear myself telling people that I have my website up, but it’s still in progress, lots of work to do, it’s not very good yet. Why? Why do I feel compelled to let them know all of the shortcomings instead of letting them form their own thoughts and opinions? Is it a control thing? Do I need to make sure that they think and feel the same way that I do? Or is it that I am so insecure and know that they’ll criticize my work that I want to make sure that they understand that I know that I am not good enough at whatever I am doing?
And it’s not just me that does this. I observe this type of behavior day in and day out in the classes that I teach, in the events that I am entertainment, and in speaking to friends. It is an epidemic. And I don’t know why. And am not sure how to cure the disease. Perhaps that’s what it is- dis-ease. Dis-ease in our imperfections, dis-ease in our desire to succeed, dis-ease in our abilities, dis-ease in possibly doing better than someone else. So what is the answer?An answer I do not have, but theories abound. Here are some suggestions for becoming more comfortable in your accomplishments and taking pride in what you do.
- Each day wake up and say out loud 3 affirmations that will help to elevate your self-esteem. Write your own to reflect your personal goals and desires.
i.e. “I am an intelligent, capable woman”
“I enjoy praise for the work that I do.”
“I am comfortable in my abilities.”
- When someone compliments you or your work, smile and say “Thank you.” That’s it. There is no need to qualify what they have said by letting them know why their compliment is unwarranted. Trust that they are capable of thinking for themselves and that they like what they see.
- List 5 qualities that make you the awesome goddess that you are. There are so many things that make you unique, take a moment to recognize what an amazing woman you are. When you start to see the wonderful things in yourself, you will feel more confident in your abilities.
Remember to treat yourself with love and respect. Each day is a new day that is starting with a blank slate. You can create the person you want to be by changing your thoughts and the way you see yourself. By trying these three exercises you are enabling yourself to be a more satisfied person through self exploration. You deserve to lead a life that you love to be the star in…why? Because you are a….
GODDESS
Have a Grooving Goddess Great Day,
Goddess Guru Mychele
www.mychele.net
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Posted in Goddess Wisdom at 3:04 am by Administrator
What does it mean today to be a Goddess? I am asked this daily, as I go by Creative Goddess Mychele. Some people think it’s cute, funny or a bit strange. While others give me a knowing look casually bringing attention to their triple moon pendant. A few even roll their eyes snickering as they walk away. As I begin to teach more classes to women and explore my soul purpose I am called to action to answer a question that I have skated around for many years…what does it mean to be a goddess today. There are four key points that I think set the goddesses apart from ordinary women.
1. SELF LOVE
Modern day goddesses find ways to love themselves, for who they are, inside and out. They may not always like themselves or like how they look, but they always love themselves. Or at least they try to. It’s not about perfection, it’s about finding the uniqueness in you and showing that off. Liberating yourself from the constraints of your mind, society, past influences, family, friends, media, ect. brings a strength to do what makes you happy and ultimately if YOU’RE HAPPY, EVERYBODY’S HAPPY…and if you’re not happy- look out! Make yourself happy by finding the beauty within, embracing it and loving you. Why because you’re a GODDESS…that’s why.
2. CAN SEE THROUGH THE DARK
While many people get disoriented, afraid, or stuck when the lights go out, a goddess forges full speed ahead. She knows what she wants and she finds a way to get it. She doesn’t let a little fear get in the way of her accomplishments. She is a warrior who thrives on the quicking heartbeat and breath, using the adreneline to her advantage so she can win the battle. It’s okay and even normal to be afraid of new situations, changes, ideas and thoughts, just don’t allow that fear to hold you back. Dream big and then take hold of that dream and ride it through the dark into the light. You can do this…why you ask? Because you are a…..GODDESS…that’s why.
3. SEE BEYOND THEMSELVES
Goddess, while pursuing their dreams, goals and creating their lives how they want them, also find ways to help others in need. They give of what they have so that others can succeed too. They are not afraid of a little competition for they know there is plenty to go around, especially when you are coming from a place of love. When your intentions are pure, you will always succeed. Not always they way you may have envisioned, but always in the way that you need. Goddesses understand this concept. They bond together to create a network that can serve to help everyone reach their highest potential. Ask yourself what you can do today to help someone live their purpose. What are you waiting for? This is your day. Why???….because you are a….that’s right- GODDESS! (See you really are a goddess, you’re catching on already!)
4. HONOR THEIR INNER SELF
Modern day goddesses honor themselves by doing what they love. They find ways, little and big, to create reality out of their dreams. Everyday. Through work, dance, music, reading, writing, vounteering, classes, teaching and the list goes on and on. What can you do today to honor yourself? What are you waiting for? You deserve this…why??? Because you are a….GODDESS! That’s why.
So who are the Modern Day Goddess really? They are every woman, big-small, short-tall, CEO-home executive, student-mother, you-me…we are all goddesses. The biggest difference between Modern Day Goddesses and ordinary women is that ordinary women have not realized that their goddess is hidden within, just waiting for them to release her. What can you do to release your inner goddess today? What can you do to help another woman do the same? Reach out, there’s safety in numbers.
And remember…you are a
GODDESS!
Have a Grooving Goddess Great Day,
Goddess Guru Mychele
http://www.mychele.net/
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